I typed this post before I went to work earlier Friday evening (6pm), so please accept my apology on how off the past and present may be in this post. I assume I proof read it as best as I could…but I got off of work three hours ago and it is already almost seven in the morning. It is almost time for me to go to bed.
Candace and I finally went to see the Sex and the City movie Wednesday night. I can honestly say I was not disappointed in one way with the movie. I loved the way it ended with all four main characters. I read somewhere they are already thinking of a second movie? Quit while you’re ahead! For those of you who have seen it - the only time I got teary eyed was when the whole wedding thing went down and Charlotte actually raised her voice. That shook me more than anything.
Time for me to post the Friday Five.
1. Did you get an allowance as a kid, and if so, how much was it?
It was $20 a week until I moved out at 19 I believe. I had a specific list of chores to do and I made sure I did them! I never minded doing what I had to do to get the money though. Because my parents divorced when I was 15 I got used to cleaning and cooking dinner several times a week (Mom worked late). I didn’t like my Mom’s house to get dirty either.
2. How old were you when you had your first job, and what was it?
I was 14 and it was at a snow ball stand close to my house as a kid. My first actual job was when I was 16 and it was at American Eagle.
3. Which do you do better: save money or spend money?
My entire life it has been spend money, but at this point I can say I save better than I spend. I actually have a savings account with a lovely amount of money in it. I can thank my job for that.
4. Are people more likely to borrow money from you, or are you more likely to borrow from them?
People are more likely to ask me to borrow money. Now, everyone has paid me back except my damned brother who owes me $20. I will never get that back. Everyone assumes since I make a decent amount that I want to just shell it out for everyone to borrow. I only lend out money to people I trust though.
5. What’s the most expensive thing you’ve ever bought?
I had to think about this one, but it is my flat screen TV in my room. I bought it March of 2007. It’s nice. I want something with a bigger screen that takes up less space.
Renee, this is one of the many reasons you are the shit. I’ve been tagged, so let me go ahead and do that as well. I usually don’t play along with these things, but the questions were just too good to pass up. Plus, I get to post without thinking of some witty or [un]interesting topic to blog about. These are the six people I am tagging: Tash, Sarah, Dee, Karol, and Liz (ha biotch, maybe I can get you to update your site! /potcallingkettleblack).
1. What was I doing 10 years ago?
I was 13 - almost 14. I was going into 8th grade. At this point in the summer I was getting ready to go to Positive Action camp (for drug and alcohol free teens [did the camp five years in a row]). I was also working at a snowball stand close to my house, and just starting to get back into cheerleading practice for my 8th grade year.
2. What are 5 things on my to-do list today?
- get online and finish this post
- do some more laundry
- play Sims 2
- go to work
- write my Dad’s card for Father’s Day
3. Snacks I enjoy:
Tortilla chips and salsa (Pace Picante Hot or Taco Bell Hot). 100 Calorie Pack Cheese-It. String cheese or small wedges of cheddar cheese. Odwalla smoothie and/or shake drinks.
4. Places I’ve lived:
St.Tammany Parish, LA: I moved to Covington with my parents (Mom was pregnant) in 1986. My Mom moved out of that same house last October. That was a sad time. I loved that house. I wanted to raise my children on that acre and a half of land. I guess all good things eventually come to an end.
Metairie, LA: I got my “own” first place in 2004 by the I-10 Interstate while I had a job (and an amazing learning experience) on Bourbon St. I was 19, naive, and easily influenced. I also got Captain as a seven week old kitten while I lived in this place.
Houston, TX: I moved there on a whim with an ex of mine and stayed way too long. In the end I lost mostly everything I had owned including my clothing (shoes included), computer (accessories included), and furniture (long story but the police said I could not prove it was mine and due to the “common law marriage” law in Texas I was screwed). I learned so much during this period of what I would NEVER put up with again in a relationship. I will also never move back to Houston. I did not live in a good part of town so my experience was not as good as most people I know.
Baton Rouge, LA: I moved in with my Dad during the summer of 2005 after leaving Houston and I stayed until late 2005.
St. Tammany Parish, LA: I moved in with my ex Brad in late 2005 and I moved back in with my Mom late 2006. I moved out of her house August 2007 and have been in my place with my roommate and Captain ever since. I missed living on my own. I adore it.
5. Things I’d do if I were a billionaire:
Eliminate my debt and for certain members of my family. I would buy homes in certain places of the world I would want to travel. I would buy a vehicle for every type I wanted. I would donate to some form of charity supporting single mothers. I would buy a large plot in Lake Lawn Cemetery in New Orleans for my immediate family. I would also buy my Mom a couple Anne Taylor stores for her to see over and decorate. She would appreciate that more than buying her Gerard Butler for a night I would put my brother through college. I would travel the world. I would own a beautiful home in the French Quarter. I’d like a beach house in the East. I want a farm up North. I want a townhouse in New York, and a mansion in California. I want land is Europe and in Australia. Yup, I think that about covers it.
6. People I want to know more about:
My Dad’s ancestors who came from Ireland through Ellis Island. Our Ellis Island papers are framed in my Dad’s parents’ house and I would LOVE to know more about that side of the family and what they dealt with in the past. My Dad’s Mom did not speak English (French) until she was six years old. She grew up in SOUTHERN Louisiana (the proper name for this would be COON ASS) on old oil land (her families’ land). She is still alive, and every time we spend time together she tells me more about my family. It is the most INTERESTING stuff. Both my Mom and Dad’s side of the family is not that big as far as immediate relatives go, but onces we start to go back to Grandparents the family tree just branches out. I cannot believe I was so ignorant to this as a teenager. What a shame I never got to talk to my Grandpa (Dad’s Father) about this before he passed. I would also like to know more about the people who run this country. No lie. Fuck what they “believe”. In my opinion, character says a TON.
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I am SO excited that Father’s Day is Sunday. My Dad has always had this thing for mini airplanes and copters that he can build and fly, so I am getting him a gift certificate to his favorite hobby store with a cute card that has car parts on it (he’s a car guy). I wanted to get him a mini Hayabusa since he just sold his 2001 model (*sniffle* Dad is growing up!), but I’m glad the man got rid of that bike. A 1300 motorcycle for a man in his 50’s is not good. The women in his life worry about him too much (Mother, Wife, Daughter, Sisters)! I am spending Saturday with him instead of Sunday due to my work schedule, but I am just happy to be able to see the guy. I love my Dad. We are so close, and I am
so thankful to have him around for this period of my life. He is one of my best friends, and while he was not around much when I was younger, I now understand why and I respect him even more because of it. I realize every single day how blessed I am so be as close as I am to my family. My Dad has helped mold me into the person I am today. I have nothing but good things to say about him. This is his second Father’s Day without his Dad around, so I will be my typical optimistic self and make him smile all day!






